On Mother’s Day, we’re here checking out Tremain Smith’s show, “The Art of Grief and What Follows,” which was created over the three years since our mother died. Much of the work and writing was not made for public viewing, but instead was created in the course of Tremain’s process of contending with the loss of Mom, which ultimately included joy. The collection became a show because OCJAC wanted it to be, after its rabbi connected with Tremain.